March 4, 2008
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TK, who is 10, ...
... would like some advise on how to ask a girl out.
He's nervous and doesn't want to muck it up. Does anyone have any advice for him?
(Remember, they are 10.)
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... would like some advise on how to ask a girl out.
He's nervous and doesn't want to muck it up. Does anyone have any advice for him?
(Remember, they are 10.)
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Comments (7)
And exactly where were the two of them going to go??? If it is to the movies.. just come out and ask the girl if she wants to go to the movies on such and such a date to see___________.
Or if it is to a dance... Tk goes up to the girl and tells her that he is going to the dance and he would like to take her to the dance. Do you want to come with me? The girl will answer him...
It all depends on where they are going! giggles....
@slave_slutangel - I'm pretty sure it's more a 'Will you be my girlfriend' kinda thing. He already calls her his girlfriend, just not to her.
well... have him draw a picture or a flower and give it to her.. and then ask her if she will be his girlfriend....
*keels over*
"Girls only like guys who have skills. Nunchuck skills, bo-staff skills...... " (napoleon dynamite, hehe)
Anyways. Is this like "going out", as in they are actually going on a date, or is this like "going out" as in a steady relationship? well, steady for a ten-year-old.
My advice, and this applies to thirty year olds as well as ten year olds, is to just be straightforward. Hey, i think you're lovely, i'd like to know you better, do you want to come do this thing with me, etc. And at that age and level of experience, I'd say it's probably best if they have a group activity to do with other people, it takes a little pressure off, and then get to know each other that way.
maybe you might tell him that her family might not let her have a boyfriend at that age....
just prepare him for a the possibility, so he is not hurt....
why am i not surprised TK is a romantic?
it's a hard one cause he's just past the "you wanna jump on my bed" (and i mean, when you actually mean jump) type invite.
i'd tell him to mull over the idea for the next six or seven years and i'm sure the right idea eventually come of it's own accord
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